Would BDSM be considered a Personal Non-Compatible Martial Art ?

I live as a 24/7 TPE slave and I can agree with what you say. I was involved in martial arts for several years and I thrived on the physical punishment and strict attention to detail that this sport afforded me. It wasn't until many years later that I found BDSM and instantly fell in love with it. I works so well for me, the sense of myself that requires the discipline, the pain, the lack of control and being able to see both personal and physical growth. Very interesting observation you've made here.