Muslims say that homosexuality is wrong, but what is their damn businesses?

The Quran DOES say that it's wrong. But it also says that religion is not compulsary. We can't force others to believe as we do. And also, we are not to judge someone else's deen (faith). I have gay family. I worry about their judgement in the afterlife and they KNOW it's a sin, but it's Allah's job to place judgement on them. It's not my place. So it IS wrong. But it also isn't my business to mess with someone over it. As long as they aren't making me watch, I'm not going to mess with them over it.